Most of your problems are that you are not that which you feel you are supposed to be because of what society has told you. You are not fathers, yet you want to become fathers, and you wait for children to be born to validate you. Either you are a father or you aren’t, and if you can’t answer that without getting some woman pregnant, having sons and daughters can never make you something you aren’t.
You know why even women who have had tubal ligations and partial hysterectomies talk to me about giving me babies? Because I AM a father… already in heaven, and always have been. They recognize how amazing of a father I AM, and dream of being able to raise Christic seeds with me, even if only as a co-parent.
The same is true for why women want to spend their lives, and not just a night with me; I AM a husband, a provider, and a protector. It has nothing to do with my relationship with a woman. It is who I AM. It doesn’t even have anything to do with being married. I don’t need a marriage to be who I AM. However, The Most High Goddess who sees me as I AM receives the blessing of who I AM.
I have always done things that husbands and fathers do, because I AM that I AM, with or without a wife or children. That is me as Shango. My significance is wholly within who I AM, and not in my potential to be. I AM wealth, and thus those who are able to see who I AM, are drawn to me when in need, even when I don’t have the money to help them. That is the power of knowledge of self. I don’t even need money to know that I AM wealth. The money doesn’t validate me, but me knowing myself as I AM causes the wealth that I AM to manifest before me.
Once you come to the understanding that all of your significance is contingent upon what you know about yourself, you stop looking for someone or something outside of yourself to validate you. If you want to really understand the intent behind the law of attraction, you have to realize it is wholly about recognizing what you are already aligned with. If you can tell me who you are, I can tell you what you are going to experience in life. However, before you know yourself, your life is just a slave to circumstances.