Most of us, in 2021, have said at one point or another, “Whatever is for me is for me”, or some variation of it. Back during my days as a Christian, I often quipped from the pulpit “What God has for me is for me”. The funny thing to me is that a lot of us are also the same people who would proclaim out of our mouths “Fake it til you make it”.
This may be one of the most aggregious contradictions in the history of mankind. The cause of the contradiction is that we have been so programmed to define our success using adscititious factors. The majority of the world’s population is so disconnected from true happiness that they are willing to do anything they can to obtain status symbols, and this is entirely a result of their desire to impress others.
The reality is that anything you have to exchange something for in order to have it is not meant for you. If it is yours, it cannot also cost you something more than being yourself, and being yourself is actually priceless. That said, there is nothing at all wrong with desire. If you see something that appeals to your senses, go for IT. I emphasize the “IT”, because you still have people in the world that believe that just because they desire a person (i.e. HE, SHE, or THEY versus IT), they should have them.
Whenever we desire something that isn’t for us, we have to be willing to pay whatever price the producer or owner asks in exchange for it. Now, when it comes to relationships, if we have to pretend to be someone else other than who we are, we are engaged in hypocrisy, and actually practicing sorcery. It is the highest act of treason in The Universe to betray your own authenticity in an attempt to manipulate someone else into choosing you. This pertains to employers, friends, romantic interests, AND RELATIVES. A lot of times, your biological kin are not meant for you, and you need to LOVE you enough to be OK with that.
My commitment to being the Divine Father I AM has revealed to me many daughters not born of my loins, and I can’t even begin to explain to you how much joy they add to my life beyond that which I already have just being alive. It also helped me identify the women who are not my Bride that were determined to get me to become to them something other than myself.
Simply by being the I AM that I AM, The Universe is responding to me with everything, AND everyone that is meant for me. I don’t even have to chase my crush. I AM blessed to just be me unapologetically, and in the same way, it will be revealed to me if she is for me or not. Guess what… Because I AM only being the I AM that I AM, if it is revealed that she is not for me, I have suffered nothing. Those who truly know the I AM that I AM know my heart, and will admit there’s none other like me. I AM going to do all I can to spoil the folks in my life, and because that is authentically me, all the resources to do just that are being added to me.
That is the revelation of “Seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things will be added to you.” You are the King/Queen of the Kingdom, and a King/Queen and His/Her Kingdom are inextricable.